Kayla

Most women my age are trying to blend in. I've never been most women. At 43, I know exactly what I want and I'm not shy about going after it – whether that's slipping into latex and heels or pushing boundaries you didn't know you had.

I switch between languages as easily as I switch moods. One moment I'm classy and sophisticated, the next I'm showing you a side that's raw and unapologetically intense. The contrast is what makes things interesting, don't you think?

What gets me going:

• The power play between leather and skin
• Watching someone lose control (in the best way)
• That moment when polite conversation takes a darker turn

I'm not here to play it safe or pretend to be someone I'm not. Confidence looks good on me – along with stockings, close-ups, and pretty much anything that makes you forget to breathe for a second. Think you can handle where this goes?